Thursday, April 8, 2010

A Jenny Visit

This post is a ridiculously belated one- you'll be able to tell especially by the scenery.

In late February my sweet, brilliant, funny, Clemson cheerleader, microbiologist PhD friend Jenny came to DC for a smart people conference.

It had been at least 3 years since we had seen each other- she's a South Carolina peep- and we had so much fun catching up. We both had our first babies within months of each other, which will always bring people closer. If it weren't for a boy who desperately needed a nap, we would probably still be talking!

She treated Grayson and I to lunch at Rosa Mexicano (not to be missed in DC or ATL) and we treated her to our $18 parking fee (really DC?). She marveled at Grayson chowing down on guacamole and I was shocked that she wasn't wearing socks in that weather.



Come back anytime Jenny! We love you!

Monday, April 5, 2010

Not Me! Monday: Bathroom Tile Edition



Well, it has been quite some time since my last Not Me! post, but after our latest home improvement project, I had too much material not to write. (Not Me! Monday is a blog carnival created by MckMama as an outlet to confess your (im)perfections.)

Mom came up this past week to help me, yes ME, Ashleigh, retile our guest bathroom. Mom has done a lot of tiling in the past and we were thrilled to have her expertise. We tiled the bathtub area and the floor and it looks great! Once we put in the new vanity and fixtures we'll post pictures. I know I keep promising to post photos of all our completed projects and I haven't. Well, this is actually our FINAL major project on the house (whoop!), and so when it is finished I will be posting pictures of each room on consecutive days. Promise. Really.

And now to the not good stuff.

Over the days of the tiling I did not go back to my dirty paint clothes wearing ways all around town. Each day I got up and put on fresh clothes that matched or at least clean ones. I definitely did NOT make an early morning, spur of the moment trip to Home Depot without first brushing my teeth. Nope! Not me! That would be seriously disgusting and I would feel self-conscious the entire time.

When at said Home Depot, you surely would not have caught me trying to use my dirty, make-up free, scraggly hair self to bat my eyes at the helpful (male) employees to drop what they were doing to help me find things such as a 2 inch wide diamond head drill bit that goes through porcelain. And I did not do this so many times that the employees began recognizing us and saying,"There he is!" (meaning Grayson) each time we came around the corner.

While mixing mortar outside, I surely did not breathe in the dust from it that had a warning on the package that clearly said, WHATEVER YOU DO, DO NOT BREATHE IN THE DUST. (Maybe I paraphrased a bit)

Mom and I do not still have grout in our fingernails two days and several showers and hand-scrubbings after the project.

And finally, I did NOT have a tile nightmare last night! Nope that would mean that I have let tiling take over my brain. But if I did have a nightmare it might have been like this: I buy a bunch of tile and decided to redo all of the floors in the Price's house (Rowlett friends). I begin by tiling the floor in the boutique in their house (what?!). But the next morning, after the mortar and grout is completely set, I realize I have not used tile spacers or paid attention AT ALL to where I am putting the tiles, and it is a disaster! And there is absolutely no way to chip it out or fix it. And on top of that, their daughters (and my sweet friends) are annoyed with me the whole time I am at the house and want me to leave.

If I had a nightmare like that, I would not have woken up in a panic, only to be so relieved after taking a peek and seeing mine intact.

Have a great week!

Monday, March 29, 2010

One Less (Not an endorsement for Gardasil)

What a month. March was a doozy in the Dickerson household and we are spent. There are several things going on, but we will spare you all but two of them.

First of all, Grayson was sick from Feb. 23rd (his bday) until about a week ago. He had ear infections and colds that would not go away and I can't even tally how much we have spent on co-pays at the pediatrician's. Once that was done, the doctor felt that his heightened irritability combined with NOT eating meant his reflux was back on the prowl. Most likely all of the antibiotics in his system had "angered" it, so we're back on Prevacid for a little while. He seems to be getting happier and is eating more each day.

And now on to the major change in the household: Hank.

Hank has always loved people, but never had a problem telling other dogs when to back off. There have not been many dogs that he gets along with, which is why we no longer go to the dog park. We truly believe he prefers humans to dogs. He has been skittish around small kids in the past, but we figured that once it was his baby he would be fine....and he was for a year. On the morning of Grayson's birthday, Hank snapped at him and caught him on the head and near the eye. We came up with all sorts of reasons that this happened and stepped up Hank's training, exercise, and our vigilance in watching Grayson's interactions with him. Things went great for 2 weeks. They played together, Grayson petted him, took bones out of his mouth, crawled after him, nothing. And then it happened again (Grayson wasn't even touching Hank at the time). At that point we felt that the decision had been made for us- Hank would have to move. Grayson is only going to get more mobile and more grabby with his dog and next time Hank might take his eye completely out.

THANKFULLY, Mom and Dad wanted to take him so Hank has moved to Camp Wheat in Texas. They have always had a love affair with each other, and when Mom comes to visit she always tries to get Hank to sleep with her in the guest room. He has been there for a week, and despite some growing pains (digging!) and sadness, everyone is adjusting quite nicely. And we are one less.

We have had a pretty hard time (especially me) and there have been a few, OR many tears, which is why this post has been so belated. However, we seem to have turned a corner over the weekend and are doing our best to move on.

Before he left we gave him a farewell party and his friends (again, people) came to say goodbye. Thanks to Bryan, Melissa, Chris, Noel, Gene, Victoria, Jonah, Chris, Jessica, Hope and Billy for humoring us!


Making the rounds:



Anybody else coming, ya'll?


Doing our party trick- which has not been done since before I was pregnant.


Special good-bye time with his best friends- Bryan and Melissa.

Worn plum out at the end of the party


We miss you, Hank! Be good for Gran and Poppi and we'll see you soon!

Friday, March 26, 2010

The Children's Prison

I know we've been MIA for a few weeks and I'm working on a post to fill ya'll in on everything.

But for now, I have something really important for you to read. One of my dearest friends (that I've mentioned on here before), Betsy, currently lives in Uganda and wrote this recently:

http://web.mac.com/joeb78/J_%26_B_in_Africa/Blog/Entries/2010/3/5_Kampiringisa.html

And then as a follow-up she wrote this:

http://web.mac.com/joeb78/J_%26_B_in_Africa/Blog/Entries/2010/3/12_A_Few_Missed_Details.html

I spoke to Betsy a few days ago and the good news is that they are formulating a long-term, self-sustaining plan to rescue the children there that are orphans. When she writes that update, I will post it here too.

Saturday, March 6, 2010

Best Picture 2010

As the credits rolled on the final movie we had to watch, Joe said,"I'm glad that's over," quickly followed by,"This is the best Hollywood has to offer for an entire year?!"

After ashamedly realizing in January that we had not seen a movie in the theater since Grayson had been born (don't worry, we do go on date nights), Joe and I made the commitment to watch all of the Academy Award Best Picture nominees before the awards show. We would catch up on movies, throw ourselves a fun party at the end, and decide if the Academy knew what they were talking about. We've always made a point to watch some of the nominees in the past, but have skipped several that we knew were overly-violent or sexual. This year we felt we could watch all of them- which was quite difficult considering there were 10. Thankfully, many were already on PPV and we only had to pay the big bucks to see 4 of them in the theater. It was at some times (as you'll notice below) a painful journey, but one worth taking.

Below are our thoughts on each movie (but no spoilers). Obviously we are nowhere near professionals and none of these opinions are objective (in other words, they reflect our worldview and personal preferences). Therefore, they should be taken with a grain of salt (except for District 9, there's no way around it, that's just a bad movie).

An Education: A young, sheltered British school girl and her parents have one goal: for her to get into Oxford to "read" English. But wait, along comes a handsome older man that wants to show her Paris and every other culturally sophisticated thing a teenage girl dreams about and what proceeds is her "education". For the subject matter, this movie is actually very clean, which is refreshing. The acting is great, full of charm and wit and the costumes beautiful. The story flows along nicely with a great moral at the end. I (Ash) have nothing bad to say about this film, but Joe was not to thrilled with the icky factor of the older man. Overall, definitely one to rent (it's just about out of the theaters).


Avatar: Considering its box office numbers, most of you have probably seen this movie. A corporation discovers an amazingly valuable mineral on the planet of Pandora and will stop at nothing to get it. It's pretty much a generic Hollywood storyline where the little people rise up to fight the big, evil corporation. However, considering its almost 3 hour length, there is hardly any dialogue. And honestly, there were times when I (Ashleigh) got bored. The special effects are unlike anything you've seen before and this must be the reason for its nomination. Despite the buzz and technical achievement of this movie, we don't believe it should win Best Picture because of the recycled storyline and absence of acting. Overall, we thought is was entertaining, and would recommend seeing it in 3D in the theaters if you haven't.

Blindside: Some critics have written off this movie about a wealthy family that takes in a homeless teenage boy as sappy and bland. However, we were thrilled to watch a film that is not only encouraging, but pulls at your heartstrings to care for others in a deeper way. The movie also has funny moments, like when the mom says, "Who would've thought we would have a black son before we ever knew a Democrat?" (so true in Southern circles, however crazy that is) or the scenes in which the younger son asks the college football recruiters what they can do for him. We liked the cast, especially Sandra Bullock and Quinton Aaron, the boy who played Michael Oher. Overall, a must see.

District 9: A bizarre, documentary-style movie where an alien ship is hovering over Johannesburg, South Africa. The aliens are seemingly stuck there and the humans provide them with a refugee camp type place to live which quickly becomes a slum. The violence in this movie is over the top and almost comical. The R rating is well deserved for the violence and the constant use of the F word. It has many of the same themes as Avatar, such as the evils of big corporations, the military industrial complex, aliens, and (redeemingly) respect for life. We guess since Peter Jackson (Lord of the Rings) made the movie it automatically gets an Oscar nod. Thirty minutes into it, we seriously wanted to turn it off and only didn't because of our commitment. Overall, wish we had those two hours of our life back. Really.

The Hurt Locker: An Explosive Ordinance Team in Baghdad receives a new (reckless) member to lead their team. You know how when you watch a TV show or movie and they are diffusing a bomb and you can't really breathe and move on with the film until it's done and everyone is safe? Well, this entire movie is like that. By the time it's over you are all tied up in knots on the inside with a "deer in the headlights" look on the outside. There are a few unrealistic portions, as any soldier would tell you, but the movie is as awesome as it is intense. Overall, we highly recommend it.

Inglourious Basterds: Our first Tarantino. The Basterds are an "elite" group of Jewish-American soldiers that is tasked to go behind the lines of Nazi-occupied France and get as many Nazi scalps as possible (not kidding about the scalps part). There was some incredible acting, especially by Austrian Christoph Waltz, who played a German SS officer. We haven't watched any Tarantino movies in the past because of the extreme violence and this movie definitely fits that mold in some sections. The storyline is a strange combination of moral dilemmas, violence and humor. Overall, we liked this movie and it was entertaining (which is more than we can say about some of the nominees).

A Serious Man: This is a Coen brothers movie (Burn After Reading, No Country for Old Men, Fargo) and like Tarantino they have a distinct style of dark, twisted humor. In this film, a Jewish-American professor's life is falling apart and in telling his story, they poke fun at a stereotypical Jewish-American community. I'm sure this movie would have been funnier to us if we knew Jewish cultural references. As it was, we were left wondering why this movie is considered to be a cinematic achievement. I guess we're just not sophisticated enough to understand why the critics love it so much. Overall, it could have been worse, but we don't recommend it.

Up: Many adults will skip this film just because it's a cartoon, although they shouldn't. We know of male friends that cried during this movie. This is a sweet story about an elderly man who goes on an adventure to fulfill the dreams of his deceased wife. The characters are absolutely precious (Ashleigh's words) and the animation is beautiful. We don't think it should win Best Picture, but it should be a lock for Best Animated Film. Overall, don't skip it.

Up In the Air: This is the movie that started it all for us. We had the chance to see a movie on date night and we chose this one. We weren't disappointed. George Clooney plays a contractor who corporations hire to come in to downsize their companies. He travels for a living and seemingly his only real goal in life is to acquire frequent flier miles. He's more at home in Business Class than he is with his own family. We thought it was a clever story and appreciated the change in the main characters as the movie progressed. It was funny, it was sweet, it was sad. Overall, go see it.

You might notice that we skipped one, Precious: Based on the novel Push by Sapphire. Sadly, by the time we got around to this one, it was out of theaters but not yet on DVD. I think Joe was secretly pleased about this because he knew it would be rough to watch because of the subject matter.

Our favorite:

Ashleigh- An Education
Joe-Blindside

Which one we think will win Best Picture:

Ashleigh- The Hurt Locker
Joe- The Hurt Locker

And now we will enjoy our special Oscar cocktails and the show. And if you've made it this far, Happy movie watching!

-Ashleigh AND Joe

Friday, March 5, 2010

One Year Stats

Standing at 26.5 inches, weighing in at 17 lbs 12 oz., I give you...



Grayson!

For those of you without children, those stats above are another way of saying he is T.I.N.Y. He had previously been in the 1-5% for children his age (I had thought we were in the 5th percentile until I was actually shown the chart last week. I think they were saying 5th all along to be nice. ha!) Grayson has been barely hanging on to the bottom of the chart since he was about a month old. Now he has fallen completely off the chart. Sorry, little buddy. The good news is that he appears so healthy, proportional and developmentally on target that the doctors and nurses were surprised to see these numbers. And they're not too worried. But to be safe, we will be seeing an endocrinologist at Children's Hospital in DC sometime in the next couple of months.

And now on to other good stuff.

At one year Grayson LOVES-

  • vanilla yogurt
  • pancakes and freshly made tortillas (they're very similar)
  • Hank (although we're not sure the feeling is mutual- more about this later)
  • drinking from a real cup (not that he's good at it)
  • the outdoors
  • opening and closing everything: doors, books, Joe's mouth, his diaper...
  • pulling up to his knees (yep, we're taking our time)
  • talking- but no clear words yet
  • the Baby Mozart DVD (the only one he has EVER wanted to watch)
  • turning wheels, little or big
  • watching big kids play
  • crawling
  • his crib
  • his Daddy (I'm OK too)
  • and being sung to by his mama when he's upset.

How did he go so quickly from this-



To this?!


Dear Time, ...SLOW DOWN!

What a great little man! Such a blast to be your parents, Grayson. You get cuter every day and bring us more joy than we could ever have imagined! We love you!